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Did you know that you can tell from the skin whether a person is sexually? active or not?!?!

1. Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests find that when woman make love they produce amounts of the hormone estrogen, which makes hair shiny and skin smooth.

2. Gentle, relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances of suffering dermatitis, skin rashes and blemishes. The sweat produced cleanses the pores and makes your skin glow.

3. Lovemaking can burn up those calories you piled on during that romantic dinner.

4. Sex is one of the safest sports you can take up. It stretches and tones up just about every muscle in the body. It’s more enjoyable than swimming 20 laps, and you don’t need special sneakers!

5. Sex is an instant cure for mild depression. It releases the body endorphin into the bloodstream, producing a sense of euphoria and leaving you with a feeling of well - being.

6. The more sex you have, the more you will be offered. The sexually active body gives off greater quantities of chemicals called pheromones. These subtle sex perfumes drive the opposite sex crazy!

7. Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. IT IS 10 TIMES MORE EFFECTIVE THAN VALIUM.

8. Kissing each day will keep the dentist away. Kissing encourages saliva to wash food from the teeth and lowers the level of the acid that causes decay, preventing plaque build-up.

“The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women—And What To Do About It…”

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes…

MISTAKE #1: Being  Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys? Of course you have. Just like me, I’m sure you’ve had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"… but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU. What’s going on here? It’s actually very simple… Women don’t base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn’t make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. And being NICE doesn’t make a woman CHOOSE you. I realize that this doesn’t make a lot of logical sense, and it’s hard to ACCEPT… but GET OVER IT. Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you’ll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To “Convince Her To Like You”

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like… but she’s just notinterested? Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently. Well, I have news for you… YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION! Never, ever, EVER. You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning". Think about it. If a woman doesn’t "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her? But we all do it. When a woman just isn’t interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind. Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman’s "approval" or "permission". Another HORRIBLE idea. Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them… EVER. Don’t get me wrong here. You don’t have to treat women BADLY for them to like you. But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again. You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval. Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her…

MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn’t treat her even HALF as well as you did? If you’re like me, then you’ve had it happen a LOT. Well guess what? It’s only NATURAL when this happens…That’s right, I said NATURAL. When you do these things, you send a clear message: "I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection". Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That’s right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE #5: Sharing “How You Feel” Too Early In The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on. Attractive women are rare. And they get a LOT of attention from men. Most men don’t realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME. An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month. And guess what? Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men. That’s right. They have EXPERIENCE. They know what to expect. And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates. This signals to the woman that you’re just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast… and can’t control themselves. Don’t do it. Lean back. Relax. There’s a much better way…

MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women

Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction. But does the same apply for women? Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on? Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks. Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around? Think about it. Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and they’re attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone. If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman. But it’s not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this. And ANY guy can learn how…

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they’ve even gotten started… because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who are a certain age. And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things. But MOST women are far more interested in a man’s personality than his wallet or his looks. There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet… And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys. YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren’t rich, tall, or handsome. Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it’s a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission. Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women. Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants. Another bad idea…Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over… Women aren’t attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women

Now I’m going to blow your mind…A woman ALWAYS knows what you’re thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That’s ten TIMES. I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you’re out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it. And if you don’t know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won’t help! And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating… Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical… everything. If you don’t know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up… and LOSE EVERYTHING. And you KNOW it. It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman… from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

This is the biggest mistake of all. This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want. I know, guys don’t like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don’t like to ask for help.

A FRIEND…

(A) ccepts you as you are
(B) elieves in "you"
(C) alls you just to say "HI"
(D) oesn’t give up on you
(E) nvisions the whole of you
(F) orgives your mistakes
(G) ives unconditionally
(H) elps you
(I)  nvites you over
(J) ust "be" with you
(K) eeps you close at heart
(L) oves you for who you are
(M) akes a difference in your life
(N) ever Judges
(O) ffers support
(P) icks you up
(Q) uiets your fears
(R) aises your spirits
(S) ays nice things about you
(T) ells you the truth when you need to hear it
(U) nderstands you
(V) alues you
(W) alks beside you
(X)  plain things you don’t understand
(Y) ells when you won’t listen

and….

(Z) aps you back to reality…

This is interesting. After Reading this, you’ll never look at a banana
in the same way again…it will make you go bananas!

Bananas. Containing three natural sugars - sucrose,fructose and glucose
combined with fiber, a banana gives an instant, sustained and substantial
boost of energy.

Research has proven that just two bananas provide enough energy for a
strenuous 90-minute workout. No wonder the banana is the number one fruit
with the world’s leading athletes.

But energy isn’t the only way a banana can help us keep fit. It can also help
overcome or prevent a substantial number of illnesses and conditions, making it
a must to add to our daily diet.

Depression: According to a recent survey undertaken by MIND amongst people
suffering from depression, many felt much better after eating a banana.
This is because bananas contain tryptophan, a type of protein that the body
converts into serotonin, known to make you relax, improve your mood and
generally make you feel happier.

PMS: Forget the pills - eat a banana. The vitamin B6 it contains regulates
blood glucose levels, which can affect your mood.

Anemia: High in iron, bananas can stimulate the production of hemoglobin in
the blood and so helps in cases of anemia.

Blood Pressure: This unique tropical fruit is extremely high in potassium yet
low in salt, making it the perfect to beat blood pressure. So much so, the US
Food and Drug Administration has just allowed the banana industry to make official
claims for the fruit’s ability to reduce the risk of blood pressure and stroke.

Brain Power: 200 students at a Twickenham (Middlesex) school were helped through
their exams this year by eating bananas at breakfast, break, and lunch in a bid
to boost their brain power. Research has shown that the potassium-packed fruit
can assist learning by making pupils more alert.

Constipation: High in fiber, including bananas in the diet can help restore
normal bowel action, helping to overcome the problem without resorting to
laxatives.

Hangovers: One of the quickest ways of curing a hangover is to make a banana
milkshake, sweetened with honey. The banana calms the stomach and, with the
help of the honey, builds up depleted blood sugar levels, while the milk soothes
and re-hydrates your system.

Heartburn: Bananas have a natural antacid effect in the body, so if you suffer
from heartburn, try eating a banana for soothing relief.

Morning Sickness: Snacking on bananas between meals helps to keep blood sugar
levels up and avoid morning sickness.

Mosquito bites: Before reaching for the insect bite cream, try rubbing the
affected area with the inside of a banana skin. Many people find it amazingly
successful at reducing swelling and irritation.

Nerves: Bananas are high in B vitamins that help calm the nervous system.

Overweight and at work: Studies at the Institute of Psychology in Austria
found pressure at work leads to gorging on comfort food like chocolate and
crisps. Looking at 5,000 hospital patients, researchers found the most obese
were more likely to be in high-pressure jobs The report concluded that,
to avoid panic-induced food cravings, we need to control our blood sugar
levels by snacking on high carbohydrate foods every two hours to keep levels
steady

Ulcers: The banana is used as the dietary food against intestinal disorders
because of its soft texture and smoothness. It is the only raw fruit that can
be eaten without distress in over-chronicler cases. It also neutralizes over-acidity
and reduces irritation by coating the lining of the stomach.

Temperature control: Many other cultures see bananas as a "cooling" fruit that can
lower both the physical and emotional temperature of expectant mothers. In Thailand,
for example, pregnant women eat bananas to ensure their baby is born with a cool
temperature.

Seasonal = Affective Disorder (SAD): Bananas can help SAD sufferers because they
contain the natural mood enhancer tryptophan.

Smoking: Bananas can also help people trying to give up smoking. The B6, B12
they contain, as well as the potassium and magnesium found in them, help the
body recover from the effects of nicotine withdrawal.

Stress: Potassium is a vital mineral, which helps normalize the heartbeat,
sends oxygen to the brain and regulates your body’s water balance. When we are
stressed, our metabolic rate rises, thereby reducing our potassium levels.
These can be balanced with the help of a high-potassium banana snack.

Strokes: According to research in "The New England Journal of Medicine,
"eating bananas as part of a regular diet can cut the risk of death by
strokes by as much as 40%!

Warts: Those keen on natural alternatives swear that if you want to kill
off a wart, take a piece of banana skin and place it on the wart, with the
yellow side out. Carefully hold the skin in place with a plaster or surgical
tape!

So, a banana really is a natural remedy for many ills. When you compare it to
an apple, it has four times the protein, twice the carbohydrate, three times
the phosphorus, five times the vitamin A and iron, and twice the other vitamins
and minerals. It is also rich in potassium and is one of the best value foods
around. So maybe its time to change that well-known phrase so that we say,
"A banana a day keeps the doctor away!"

Bananas must be the reason monkeys are so happy healthy and horny all the time!

Four friends reunited at a party after 30 years. After a few
laughs?and drinks, one of them had to go to the?rest room. The ones
who stayed behind began to talk about their kids?and their
successes.

The first guy says: I am very proud of my son, he is my pride and
joy. He started working at a very successful company at the bottom of
the barrel. He studied Economics and Business Administration soon he
was promoted and began to climb the corporate ladder becoming the
General Manager and now he is the president of the company. He became so
rich that he gave his best friend a top of the line Mercedes Benz for
his birthday.

The second guy says: Damn, that’s terrific!! My son is also my
pride and joy, I am very proud of him. He started working at a traveling
agency for a very big airline. He went to flight school to become a
pilot and also manage to become a partner in the company where he
now owns the majority of the assets. He became so rich that he gave his
best friend a brand new jet for his birthday.

The third guy says: Well, well, well congratulations!! My son is
also my pride and joy and he is also very rich. He studied in the best
universities and became an Engineer. He started his own
construction company and became very successful and a multimillionaire.
He also gave away some thing very nice and expensive to his best friend
for his birthday. He built a 30,000 sq ft mansion specially for his
friend.

The three friends congratulated each other mutually for the
successes of theirs sons. The forth friend who earlier had gone to restroom
returned and asked: What’s going on, what are all the congratulations for?
One of the three said: We were talking about the pride we feel for
the successes of our sons. And then he asked, What about your son?

The forth man replied: My son is Gay and he makes a living dancing
as a stripper at a nightclub.

The three friends said: What a shame that must be, that is
horrible, what a disappointment you must feel.

The forth man replied: No, I am not ashamed. Not at all. He is my
son and I love him just as well, he is my pride and joy.
And he is very lucky too. Did you know that his birthday just
passed and the other day he received a beautiful 30,000 sq ft mansion,
a brand new jet and a top of the line Mercedes Benz from his three
boyfriends.

CASE 1: Kelly Sedey had one wish, for her
boyfriend of three years, David Marsden, to
propose to her. Then one day when she was out to
lunch David proposed! She accepted, but then had
to leave because she had a meeting in 20 min.
When she got to her office, she noticed on her
computer she had some e-mail’s. She checked it,
the usual stuff from her friends, but then she
saw one that she had never gotten before.  It
was this poem. She simply deleted it without even
reading all of it.  BIG MISTAKE! Later that
evening, she received a phone call from the
police.  It  was about DAVID! He had been in an
accident with an 18 wheeler. He didn’t  survive.

CASE 2: Take Katie Robinson She received
this poem and being the believer that she was,
she sent it to a few of her friends but didn’t
have enough e-mail addresses to send out the
full 10 that you must. Three days later,  Katie went
to a masquerade ball. Later that night when she
left to get to her car to go home, she was
killed on the spot by a hit-and-run drunk driver.

CASE 3: Richard S. Willis sent this poem
out within 45 minutes of reading it. Not even 4
hours later walking along the street to his new
job interview with a really big company, when he
ran into Cynthia Bell, his secret love for 5
years. Cynthia came up to him and told him of
her passionate crush on him that she had had on him
for 2 years. Three days later, he proposed to
her and they got married. Cynthia and Richard are
still married with three children, happy as ever!

             This is the poem:

      Around the corner I have a friend,
      In this great city that has no end,
      Yet the days go by and weeks rush on,
      And before I know it, a year is gone.
      And I never see my old friends face,
      For life is a swift and terrible race,
      He knows I like him just as well,
      As in the days when I rang his bell.
      And he rang mine but we were younger then,
      And now we are busy, tired men.
      Tired of playing a foolish game,
      Tired of trying to make a name.
      "Tomorrow" I say! "I will call on Jim
      Just to show that I’m thinking of him."
      But tomorrow comes and tomorrow goes,
      And distance between us grows and grows.
      Around the corner, yet miles away,
      "Here’s a telegram sir," "Jim died today."
      And that’s what we get and deserve in the end.
      Around the corner, a vanished friend.

Remember to always say what you mean. If
you love someone, tell them. Don’t be afraid to express
yourself. Reach out and tell someone what they mean to you.
Because when you decide that it is the right
time it might be too late. Seize the day. Never
have regrets. And most importantly, stay close to 
your friends and family, for they have helped make
you the person that you are today.

The man whispered, "God, speak to me"
and a meadowlark sang.

But, the man did not hear.

So the man yelled, "God, speak to me"
and the thunder rolled across the sky.

But, the man did not listen.

The man looked around and said,
"God let me see you."
And a star shined brightly.

But the man did not see.

And, the man shouted,
"God show me a miracle."
And, a life was born.

But, the man did not notice.

So, the man cried out in despair,
"Touch me God, and let me know you are here.
" Whereupon, God reached down and
touched the man. But, the man brushed the butterfly away …
and walked on.

I found this to be a great reminder that God is always
around us in the little and simple things that we take
for granted…even in our electronic age. so I would like
to add one more:

The man cried,
"God, I need your help!"
And an e-mail arrived reaching out with good news
and encouragement.

But, the man deleted it and continued crying ..

Don’t miss out on a blessing because it isn’t packaged the way
that you expect.

  I guarantee you will remember the tale of the Wooden Bowl tomorrow,
a week from now, a month from now, a year from now.

  A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and
four-year old grandson. The old man’s hands trembled, his eyesight
as blurred, and his step faltered.

  The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather’s
shaky hands and failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off
his spoon and onto the floor. When he grasped the glass milk spilled
on the tablecloth. The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the
mess.

  "We must do something about Grandfather", said the son. "I’ve had
enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor." So the
husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, Grandfather ate
alo! ne while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner.

  Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a
wooden bowl. When the family glanced in Grandfather’s direction, sometimes
he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone.

  Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions
when he had dropped a fork or spilled food. The four-year-old watched it
all in silence.

  One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with
wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child curiously, "What are you
making?"

  Sweetly, the boy responded, "Oh, I am making a little bowl for you
and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up." The four-year-old smiled
and went back to work.

  The words so struck the parents that they were speechless. Then
tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken,
both knew what must be done.

  That evening, the husband took Grandfather’s hand and gently led him
back to the family table.! For the remainder of his days he ate every meal
with the family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to
care any longer when a fork was dropped, when milk was spilled, or when
the tablecloth was soiled.

  On a positive note, I’ve learned that life sometimes gives you a
second chance. I’ve learned that whenever I decide something with an
open heart, I usually make the right decision.

  I’ve learned that every day, you should reach out and touch someone.
People love that human touch - holding hands, a warm hug, or just a
friendly pat on the back.

  I’ve learned that no matter what happens or how bad it seems today,
life goes on, and it will be better tomorrow.  I’ve learned that,
regardless of your relationship with your parents, you will miss them
when they are gone from your life.

  I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she
handles three things: a rainy day, lost luggage,! and a late friend.

  I’ve learned that making a living is not the same thing as making a life.

  I’ve learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you. But,
if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others, your
work, and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you.

  I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s
mitt on both hands. You need to be able to throw something back. I’ve
learned that I still have a lot to learn.